Discover Your Best Self
Through the Eyes of Others
A research-backed tool that helps you uncover your unique strengths by gathering stories from the people who know you best.
Impact Stories
See Yourself Through
A New Lens
When you see yourself through the eyes of others, you unlock a perspective that self-reflection alone cannot provide.
"[The stories I received] tended to pull me into the realm of possibility and hope. It provided me with clues for making a greater and more positive difference on the world."
"Most of the stories people shared were about little moments I had forgotten or didn't even think about. I saw how much it meant to other people, even though it wasn't in my line of sight."
"The RBSE helped me recognize patterns in my leadership that I was completely blind to. It's changed how I approach my team and my career."
"I've done many assessments, but none revealed things about myself that I couldn't see. The stories people shared will stay with me forever."
"What comes easy to us, we overlook or discount. The RBSE showed me my impact strengths that were energizing me without even knowing it."
"This is such a rare experience — like graduations or weddings where people celebrate who you are. But this focused purely on my strengths and contributions."
The Research
It's time to rethink
performance.
Research shows it's a myth that we need to be well-rounded to succeed. In reality, high performance comes from a unique combination of skills and talents.
The Reflected Best Self Exercise gives you the rare opportunity to discover YOUR unique talents by gathering specific stories of when you were at your best.
See Your Impact Strengths
Built on decades of research, RBSE reveals qualities that are essential to who you are, effortless to exercise, and energizing to use—often invisible to you but powerful to others.
Build Your Flourishing Ratio
Research shows we need 3:1 positive to negative feedback to thrive. RBSE illuminates strength participants often can't see in themselves.
Boost Engagement & Performance
Gallup research shows people who use their strengths daily score 6x higher on engagement and experience greater resilience, focus, and meaning in their work.
The Process
How It Works
A simple, powerful journey to discover your strengths.
1. Invite
Select storytellers from all areas of your life to share specific moments.
2. Collect
We gather authentic narratives about when others have seen you at your best.
3. Craft
Review stories and identify patterns to create a portrait that reflects your unique impact.
4. Apply
Use your newfound awareness to enhance your life, leadership, and learning.
Choose Your Path
Whether you're an individual looking to grow, a student developing your potential, or an organization building a better team.
Ready to find your best self?
Join over 50,000 leaders, students, and professionals who have transformed their lives with the RBSE.
Get Started Today